Hey, all! I need some advice...... My kinda sorta step son(14)has been caught with vaping stuff for the second time. I’m not his mom and both parents are very involved in raising him.....so I won’t have much say in what happens, but being the somewhat expert in vaping among the three of us, I feel like I need to contribute somehow. I love this kid but he’s been caught in multiple lies, stealing and he has severe ADHD. No concept of past or future. Failing classes. My kids were tough, but he’s a totally different kid. And he’s adopted, which creates a whole new dynamic. So....what would you do if you caught your 14 year old with vaping stuff?