AndriaD
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So, basically, your situation isn't really all too dissimilar from my own. I can repeat myself again, but you'll still insist I don't know how hard it is to do, so why bother.
Bottom line is we don't need to know the specifics, and I'll go back to my first statement. Live by the rules of the house or move out.
You keep saying it's not possible. But, after my divorce (I left with, literally, nothing, I just wanted out) I had nothing left. And yet, I was able to scrape together first, last, and security within a few months. Yeah, my furniture, if you can call it that, was horrible, and I basically had one pot, one pan, one plate, you get the idea. But if it's that bad, you do what you have to do to get where you need to be and you certainly don't keep making excuses for why you're in a situation you don't want to be in. Because, ultimately, if you're still in it, it's because you choose to be in it, which means it IS where you want to be because you don't want to deal with the repercussions of the alternatives.
"If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice."
Andria