OP seems fine to me (but I've been fooled before) I say give them a chance before passing judgement.
Judging requires thought. Finding out I have difficulty managing thought. Thinking brings me either pain, or trouble, and sometimes both.
Let the planners, plan and doers, do. Keeps it simple and doesn't require thought as a doer. Besides, in doing I become an asset not a liability. If I had a plan, I'd be liable.
Liability creates an expense and detracts value. Doing creates value, even inherently so. Again, it behooves to defer to simplicity. If valued, you can hang around and benefit.
So yeah, trying to avoid thinking. Serves nothing for me. Besides, it is simply a message forum. There are how many such forums online? ... *returns to staring off blankly, nods*